This 3 year and 5 months affair is kind of monotonous...
when will we be tired of this kind of set-up? NEVER...
we will complain about the same old things over and over again...
i will always cry, walk-out, nag, etc... but at the end of the day, LOVE and FORGIVENESS will always rule.. forgiveness is better than revenge after all.
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.
Let me share a story that i read somewhere...
A female telephone operator received a phone call one day.
She answered, "Public Utilities Board."
There was silence. She repeated, "PUB."
There was still no answer.
When she was going to cut off the line, she heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB.Sorry, I got the number from my husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is."
Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB"..
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that
"A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation."
Many relationships break off because of wrong speech.. When a couple is too close with each other,we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.
A lady and her millionaire husband visited their construction site.
A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted,"Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school."
On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me.Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker."
She answered ,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you."
Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship.
It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed..
Ours may not be PERFECT..
but i just realized that, i am one lucky girl...
For at this early stage of our relationship,
i am beginning to see (GOOD & BAD) the real man i am planning to KEEP fOrEvEr!..
happy anniversary marte!